Solid and clear
Turn your fear
Water your passion
Feel it live it
Move your Ground
With your tensions
In your way
Here & Now
Let it out
Piece 4 Love is elevating to an e-magazine
containing more stuff less commercial, less artifical and more real life content.
To Make Life More Beautiful & Easy to Live
To Look Good & Save The Word
Still with touch of beauty, fashion and knowledge 4 life.
I haven’t been blogging for a really really long time
After the fire in my appartment last year my life has change.
And my motivation for writing just went down.
It has been difficult to maintain my old habits, and it has also been difficult to establish new habits of life.
But I did something I always wanted
I am creative with the things I love
And I can live by it
I am so grateful for my life as it is right now,
I am so grateful for the things I am creating.
Thanks for reading
And remember this blog is more about stuff
It’s also about life and style
See my things on my shop
and follow my stories about
saving the world a little bit every day
and still looking good.
Piece 4 Love
For the last five years I did not do anything particular on new years eve. There’s a reason why, but I tell you that another day.
This new years eve was something totally different. First of all because I am using crutches for the moment.
And secondly I eat new years dinner at a restaurant. (first time doing that new years eve) I was with my friends Carmen & Giacomo. Giacomo is also known as DJ Busonera, and the dinner was with his DJ friends C-sky & Siko and a really special guest Ellen Allien, DJ from Germany who was to play at the new year party ATLANTIDE later.
At the restaurant we had a blast. One thing was that we were missing one person, the one hosting the dinner, and while waiting – we ate a lot of bread. So much, that we started joking about wanting more bread. You know… when you get fixed on something that is funny for the moment, you keep it for the night.
Where are you?
We love italian bread. We need more ❤
Popping the bottle
Ellen Allien surprised by fans
Me sitting on a speaker for 3 hours
DJ Flavia Laus warming up for afterparty
The best man at the show, making sure I could stay safe on the speaker
Happy New Year to you where ever you are in the world.
Remember you are the one to get the best out of it.
Piece 4 Love
Some times ago I had difficulties in showing I was vulnerable.
I wanted to be strong and ready for action. Or did I wanted to be like that or was it just a habit.
A habit of what I’ve learned a habit of what I was use to hear. The words that created my reality. Who I was, how other saw me and how I saw the world.
Even when people by their words hurted me I had difficulties in telling the truth about what they were doing to me with their words. I wanted to be strong.
But inside me it hurted … it hurted so much that I even now feel the pain… not by the words they used against me but the feeling of not defending myself. That hurts.
And now growing older and even if it still hurts I know that I did well, not defending myself. Not spending my energy to convince other people of the consequence of their doings. Some people will never understand.
And the best way I come further is to have eye on the positive people and the positive constructive feedback I get.
Because by being with people with whom I am aloud to be vulnerable it is also easier for me being strong in the way that makes me progress and develop my life…to my satisfaction.
Balancing between being vulnerable and strong.
How do you keep balanced ?
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Today I passed by a girl called Doriana on Istagram. And I totally liked her profile text.
“Choose to live – not to survive”
And funny enough she comes from Italy (if you didn’t know I am half Italian)
I asked Doriana if I could feature her profile text here, so voila, Doriana’s awesome message is now even more available.
And this make Doriana a Piece 4 Love of the day. One of these pieces that just make life more beautiful and easier to live, because she’s right in telling me the fact, that if I choose to live I live. If I choose to survive I survive, and that is different from living. Well of course I do live if you survive, though, the fact is
To survive makes me think of troubles and difficulties whereas on the other hand to live makes me think of breathing and being happy.
And oh no I am not happy all the time, almost. But I do breath…
I relate my being happy almost all the time with the two choices in life I wrote about some posts ago.
It is easier for me to choose to be happy, because then I act from a higher vibration and I do my work better.
So how do I choose it.
I plan things I like to do and that makes me smile. That makes it easier for me to do things I do not like.
Tomorrow I have to do some administrative stuff that I have to do myself and that I really do not enjoy that much. In order to fell better about it, I go to an open place where I feel good.
So I change the rather boring thing into a cooler thing by tweaking the situation and that makes me happy,
And when I am happy I feel I choose to live.
Thanks for reminding me Doriana.
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I love them. Inspirational quotes.
They make me stronger.
They make me smile.
They make me understand more about life.
Inspirational quotes are pieces 4 love that makes my life more beautiful because they make me smile and they make my life easier because they give me advices and learnings I can use.
A good example is this quote above.
How many times did some body said to me follow your heart…many times.
And how many times did I get hurt…many…
So… If.. for every time some one told me to follow my heart…they’ve followed up by advising me to take my brain with me… then the number of times that I hurted myself maybe have been smaller.
But on the other hand… If I never try I never see if I could go where my heart told me to go…because my brain is filled up with learnings from the past. So my brain sometimes becomes a hurdle to following my heart…
So then..what to do….?
I’ll follow my heart and try take my brain with me without listening too much…or… what do you think?
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I actually never thought about it, but life feels fogy sometimes.
Like, I can’t see where I am going or what I should actually bring with me.
Not physically but mentally.
I feel like walking in the clouds, not being sure if I fall every time I prepare a new step.
Which makes it quite paranoia like, to dare take a step everyday.
Then I thought back on knowledge I got many years ago…
We people have two choices in life:
One choice is to react instinctively, another is to respond appropriately.
And it occurred to me, that I’ve been reacting instinctively on many things in my life.
An example is turning into panic and sad feelings when people reject me. Even if I know it tells more about them than about me.
But then yesterday, I realised that reacting instinctively gives me more problems inside me.
So today I thought about how could I react properly. For my own sake. And I realised I had to cancel them from my social media, so I do not get back in the sad mood when I see posts from them.
I realised I had to cancel them from my life, and not following them on social media anymore, … maybe I am harsh. But my instinct reaction was to be panic and figure out how to make then unreject me. But that made me focus on negative energy.
So instead I focus on the positive things, and i try to respond properly to that. In order to build on what actually makes me smile.
And something I have had a really big difficulty of admitting, was all the direct messages I get from people I am connected to on social media. The thing is, I am really bad at writing back. And I have to arguments for that:
So, I’ve been thinking about how I could respond properly and address this interest, in order to show the interest back.
And now I have made this video, a little introduction video… totally without manuscript and I made in one shot. NO time for regrets. It is totally authentic and real.
And you know what, after I made this video, it seemed as if the fogginess lighted a bit.
Thanks to all of you who inspires me everyday via Social Media and in Real Life.
Let me know what I can do better and keep asking me questions, I am preparing new videos about life to you.
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Before there was none
now there are so many that I have to choose
Choose which one to be on
Whether to be active and social or passive and still little social…
Before I had to go out and meet people, if I stayed home I would not meet any
Which maybe means that many
more people today can socialise in their own way
But maybe after even
more young people believe
That what is going on is for real
I do not know what is best for you,
I try do to what is best for me
And what makes me feel good.
And it makes me feel good to be inspired by others,
to see when they work … out … and when they visit their mother
When they eat cake and have struggles when they bake …. it… and share it one another.
…Thanks to all inspiring people on Instagram
Thanks for reading my poem – the first here on my blog,
and then before ending this post I post a picture from Kate Egan. A true multipotentialite (if you do not know what that is check out my post about that)
Post with wise words…and before social media there were less,,, after there are plenty
I love them
Be Social in the way that works for you.
Piece 4 Love
Ps. you can check out my insta right here
But it is too dark and I do not get the picture that I want.
What is it?
That thing about wanting that picture.
Picture of what?
A picture of how I want it to be?
A picture of how it is?
Maybe a picture of how it is with a filter of how I want it to be.
Or how I wish it would be.. or how I think I know it probably could be.
What is the perfect picture? What is the wrong picture?
Is there anything perfect or right or wrong?
A clever woman taught me:
Something works and someting works less.
Go with the things that work. You can feel it in the middle of your body.
Either it feels good or it feels bad. When it feels bad it works less.
When it feels good it works…
Then you do not care about the picture, you just take it and launch, no filter, no editing,…
Make yourself comfortable with yourself, and take that picture ❤
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